The Bitter Queen Part V
Email This ArticleThere is this preoccupation among mtf transvestites and transgender people with physical passing. I think not enough of us pay attention to psychological passing. What do I mean by psychological passing?
The attitude.
I have talked, at length, about bitter queens. I once read a gay advice column where bitter (gay) queens are kindly asked to leave their sarcasm at home where it belongs. We’ve all been through tough times. Nobody’s drama takes priority.
But there is another attitude among mtf transvestites: It’s this, “I spent many hours shaving, putting on makeup, primping, dressing….so you owe me something. At least let me make a bazillion sarcastic remarks, because you don’t know what I’ve had to go through.” I myself mentioned this when I said how odd it is that some tranny chasers ask you to go to them on a first date. Something no one would dare ask of a genetic girl on a first date. Still, I don’t think anyone owes me anything for the hard work it takes to be a girl.
Because let’s face it: Even real girls have to work at being girls. Do you see them openly walking around with a chip on their shoulder for daily upkeep? No. I think the attitude comes from this traditional male attitude: “As long as girls are doing it to please us, it’s ok. But now that I have to do it: I’ll be damned if you won’t have to hear about my inconvenience.”
Ladies. Be wise. Here’s simple advice you will be familiar with.
Keep It Hidden.