Archive for October, 2008

The first time New Yorkers looked up at the Twin Towers in disbelief (update: October 27, 2008)

Monday, October 27th, 2008

Philippe Petit high wire walker, juggler, artist, poet

Petit at some 1360 feet up in the skies on 1974, World Trade Center

Long-time friends of mine will tell you that as a child, one of the very first things I asked to visit on my first day in New York City was the World Trade Center. I have the pictures to prove it (at the age of 9). With twice the fervor I had when I got to Cologne Cathedral in Germany at 6, I begged and pleaded my entire family to walk up to the very edge of the Twin Towers where I can gaze up the corner edge in disbelief.

It’s true that there continues to be many architects and armchair aesthetes who frown upon the minimalism of Minoru Yamasaki, a Japanese architect who was chosen to design the Twin Towers in the 60s. Not only do the Twin Towers pay homage to the gothic tradition among Manhattan’s skyscraper alumni – Cass Gilbert’s Woolworth Building – it weds both the past (the soaring vaults and naves of European cathedrals) to the future (dehumanized aspirations of the mechanized era). It’s two gorgeous monoliths of silver (my favorite color): think of Kubrick’s Space Odyssey 2001 monoliths as shimmering mirrors that terminate in gothic vaults after 110 floors.

In the same way as the music of Philip Glass, Philip Corner, and Steve Reich open gateways within mirrors, the minimalism of the Twin Towers were visual meditations on the ecstasy of repetition. For years since 9/11, I have been trying to elaborate on just what it was that made the Twin Towers my favorite building in Manhattan.

If you look at my favorite cathedral, The Cologne Cathedral, and then the WTC, you’d conclude I was a size queen even at the age of 6. Happily, someone has come to my rescue regarding my two beloved towers: Philippe Petit, who walked across the Twin Towers in 1974 is captured in a documentary that will be coming out on dvd on Dec 2008.

In the meantime, his book To Reach the Clouds: My High Wire Walk Between the Twin Towers is an absolute delight. Petit put into words the wonder one feels at the endless soaring towers of the World Trade Center. To this day, my latent image of Yamasaki’s work remains in the void. One of the most emotional photographs in Petit’s book is a shot of New Yorker’s gawking upwards from the street in awe.

When I watch the events of 9/11 and the violence of the passenger planes crashing into the towers, my disbelief and shock is assaulted by the intense hatred man and his religion is capable of. The beautiful shot of the first time New Yorkers looked up at the Twin Towers in disbelief restores, for me, the intense inspiration man and his art is capable of.

All The Sad Young Men (A Love Story) Update: Oct 17, 2008

Friday, October 17th, 2008

Ali McGraw A Love Story

I guess the thing that kept me away from A Love Story for decades was a piece of advice given to me by an English teacher when I was in my impressionable years: “Never use death as a dramatic device. Continuing on with life always has the possibilities of being infinitely more tragic.

The other thing that prevented me from watching it was the impression I was going to have to sit through Andy Williams’s drippy vocalized version of the main theme.

I finally got around to watching it, based on a piece of information that overrode the previous two in importance. A phrase that is of utmost importance to the meaning of my existence: “There’s an awful lot of plaid in this movie“.

And to my somber delight, the movie had neither Andy Williams, nor the use of death as the main dramatic device. I’m amazed at how poorly Ali McGraw’s sweetness comes across in still photographs. Don’t get me wrong: I love big bushy dark eyebrows. I just thought she was a tad plain, judging from the movie posters. To my surprise, she’s adorably charming in motion. I can see why teenagers and teen fashion magazines continue to use Jennifer Cavalleri in their style lexicon. If you just go by the pictures, you’d be doing yourself a great disservice.

Now I finally understood how one night, my parents left home excitedly for the cinema while I sat on the floor playing with my stuff animals. A few hours later, they re-entered from outside, silently sad, with little to say to each other.

The movie has not aged in the least bit. Let’s all pray and hope Gwyneth and Hollywood doesn’t try to remake this one. All good things that are made to age well should be left alone.

The Stepford Wife Outfit (GALLERY UPDATE: October 5, 2008)

Sunday, October 5th, 2008

Stepford Wife

Finally, a gallery update. I have been away at Asheville, North Carolina. Yes, I was there during the frightful gas shortage, where people were coming to fisticuffs at gas stations. Luckily I was nowhere near those meanies.

Anyway, here is one of my favorite outfits. Only to be worn in the presence of a man after the knot has been tied. All the great Titus 2 Bible teachings will be practiced (“they admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands…to be obedient to their own masters, to be well pleasing in all things, not answering back.”)

Our family is Presbyterian, and I was raised as such, but I’m not a very religious person. Although I am looking for a good copy of the King James Bible and the English Standard Version for my library. The two can bookend and gang up on Christopher Hitchens’s God Is Not Great.

The price of a wandering curiosity is that there’s often too much in-fighting on my bookshelves. That’s why I have removed my favorite books to a separate shelf. You know: Obey Him, The Submissive Wife, Fascinating Womanhood, Good Wives, Urban Japanese Housewives, The Pleasure is All Mine, and Pink Think.

My gentle readers know I do not advocate any of these dangerous activities for any woman other than myself. I think women in our society today should be free to pursue whatever goals they chose. If you want to be vice-president or you want to be a stay at home mom, well that’s just peachy. Friends who have met my father – when he was around – will tell you he was a nice, open-minded, liberal fella as well. I guess that’s why the whole traditional ultraconservative male fascinates me so much. For me, the guys who take charge, order for both of us at restaurants, have the opinions, make the decisions, and is the No.1 Kingpin and breadwinner has always made me swoon. (Not to be misread as BDSM masters, which I have no interest in whatsoever).

Take Aubrey Andelin’s advice in Man of Velvet and Steel:

Women must return to their homes and serve their men. They are thinking too much of what they want to do rather than what they ought to do.

The man who allows his wife to hold the reins is also to blame and has failed in his leadership. He must, if he is a man, overpower her and regain his position as head of the household.

She is dependent on his understanding, his unselfishness, and consideration. She is dependent on his cooperation in reaching her objectives. He holds power over her, over everything she holds near and dear. Every desire of her heart is tied to him and his rule over her. When a woman marries, she puts her faith and trust in her husband. She gives up her freedom and moves into his camp.

Can you say swoon, swoon, and swoon?!